One of the hardest thing to handle in a realtionship is conflict. Though some of the little fights can clear out the air and help between the two to get closer. Alot of fights are just hurtful and destructive. When it comes to a conflict, women tends to make critical mistakes which cause them to feel hurt and lonely. The mistake that women makes is usually in a coversation that gets her feelings hurts and ends up in an emotional manner.

Alot of break ups occur because we don’t know how to get to our inner depth, we do not know how to share it. When couples are in the process of arguing something meaningless, the abusive words they say isn’t what they really want to say. Instead of feeling the anxiety or fear we my have about setting boundaries of looking at what we need, we argue about something usless in order to get space from eachother. We argue to feel more alive, instead of looking at what is missing in our life. We argue about what our lover spent money on, rather than face our own issues about money. We argue as a way to control our lover, rather than face our fear of being controlled. We argue about stupid things, and little things, and really is there a point in arguing?

It’s always good to give out your own opinion and have a voice in your relationship. But it does not need to lead to a conflict. There is really no point in raising voices with eachother, it’ll just ruin yours and his day.

To the ladies: What you should to do before reaching an argument that ruins your day is:

1. Try to stay calm
2. Talk soft to him about how you feel concerning the issue
3. Don’t try to be competitive
4. Be a bigger person
5. Hold your anger
6. Shut up and listen to him
7. Don’t talk back
8. Do as told
9. If you do all this, he will then be calm, let him cool off, wait for a bit then bring it up to him and talk to him nicely and express your feelings. (better do it a day later when both is in a good mood)

After an argument, it’s always good to get back together and make some extra love. Try to put on some sexy lingerie and start seducing him. The brand name LA PERLA, an Italian brand has been worn by many famous actresses and celebrities.