How to be a Good Boyfriend

How to be a Good Boyfriend

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If you and your partner seems to spend most of the time arguing, perhaps you should take a closer look at the cause of the problem. It would be great if love could be a bed of roses all the time, and being in a world of brilliant sunrises and sunsets where there were no misunderstandings or hurt feelings, no fights, no arguments. But it seems to be impossible for couples who are in love. One of my favorite quote,

The couple that fights the most is the one most in love… it shows they care enough to notice the other one screwed up and care enough to mention it to the person so they can fix it. When you stop fighting it means you stopped caring.

So, if you and your mate is in an argument, don’t worry is nothing too serious. Men: If you are reading this, there are some things you really need to know about us.

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1. Women Need to Talk

Women often need to completely talk the problem through before they are able to stand aside and put it behind them. However, men feels that they are attacked when a woman works through her problems by talking. Men, all you have to do is to support her by listening!!

2. Just a LITTLE space

The best way to stop an argument is to just give eachother some spaces. Especially for men, they need to cool off and think things through. (Though, some men needs ALOT of space, which some women can’t stand..cause they really want to talk things through). Take a step back, reflect on how much you love this person. Not only think of the bad things, but remember the good, sweet, romantic times you had together.

3. Why so serious?

After some time has passed, come back and talk again, but in a loving and respectful way. Get over it! Simple gestures like a smile, holding hands, laugh about it the situation can be good icebreakers!

4. Call her Now!

Still not happy with eachother? Given eachother enough space and time to cool off? It’s nothing too serious? Give her a call up and just go see a movie or a nice dinner!

What to Wear after an argument:

Ladies: I know it’s hard to go out when you’re looking sullen. Shopping online is a good way to stay away from people! Look online, for a  sexy lingerie to seduce him.

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Men: Dress nice, polo-shirt and a nice pair of jeans. Only you know your girl-friend best, so treat her a nice romantic dinner!

4 Responsesto “How to be a Good Boyfriend”

  1. yewon says:

    haha..good one:) my boyfriend is good…

  2. Mike says:

    Or it means that they are the most screwed up couple. Just because you fight, doesn’t mean you are in love. Come on, since when did we decide it was ok to compromise what we think “love” really is for some shadow of the real thing. Face it, most “love” is just lust and like. True love is a commitment to stick it out through thick and thin, not one argument after another to point out each others flaws. Love is transforming, not condescending. Love is not a fight.

  3. Greetings from Belgium. This is a cool blog. I’m wondering if you have any advice about staying out of the friend zone with girls? I’m really tired of girls telling me they just want to be friends. Perhaps I’m being too nice?

  4. thank you for this usefull informations..

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