If you and your partner seems to spend most of the time arguing, perhaps you should take a closer look at the cause of the problem. It would be great if love could be a bed of roses all the time, and being in a world of brilliant sunrises and sunsets where there were no misunderstandings or hurt feelings, no fights, no arguments. But it seems to be impossible for couples who are in love. One of my favorite quote,
The couple that fights the most is the one most in love… it shows they care enough to notice the other one screwed up and care enough to mention it to the person so they can fix it. When you stop fighting it means you stopped caring.
So, if you and your mate is in an argument, don’t worry is nothing too serious. Men: If you are reading this, there are some things you really need to know about us.
Women often need to completely talk the problem through before they are able to stand aside and put it behind them. However, men feels that they are attacked when a woman works through her problems by talking. Men, all you have to do is to support her by listening!!
The best way to stop an argument is to just give eachother some spaces. Especially for men, they need to cool off and think things through. (Though, some men needs ALOT of space, which some women can’t stand..cause they really want to talk things through). Take a step back, reflect on how much you love this person. Not only think of the bad things, but remember the good, sweet, romantic times you had together.
After some time has passed, come back and talk again, but in a loving and respectful way. Get over it! Simple gestures like a smile, holding hands, laugh about it the situation can be good icebreakers!
Still not happy with eachother? Given eachother enough space and time to cool off? It’s nothing too serious? Give her a call up and just go see a movie or a nice dinner!
Ladies: I know it’s hard to go out when you’re looking sullen. Shopping online is a good way to stay away from people! Look online, for aÂ sexy lingerie to seduce him.
Men: Dress nice, polo-shirt and a nice pair of jeans. Only you know your girl-friend best, so treat her a nice romantic dinner!